Shock Study: Unhealthy Parents = Unhealthy Kids!
Hello everyone! Sorry for the lack of a post yesterday but as you know I’m dealing with my low back injury and boy is it taking a toll. I’m confident I’ll be back in action very soon, but in the meantime the press just keeps giving me fantastic material to work with. As my new friend Heather Frey from Twitter says – It’s ANGRIFYING!
While surfing the web, I can across this article in the LA Times in which hard to come by research dollars have been used to show a link between parents following a healthy diet and exercise program, and their children’s adherence to the same. Umm, what am I missing here? Did they really need to research this? Seriously, who’s coming up with these ideas for studies and paying out ridiculous money to fund them? And people wonder why I’m angry.
In the “study”, 165 overweight kids that ranged in age from 6 – 10 were placed in 1 of 3 different intervention groups; a program where better eating habits, goal setting, and positive reinforcement was taught to parents in a dietician designed program, an exercise program for kids led by a physical education teacher with the parents only taking part initially but encouraged to do more as time went on, and another group where parents and children both had an intervention consisting of exercising and eating healthy together.
And guess what? They found that while all groups initially had similar results with weight loss, the children from the group that had both parents and children participating in exercise and eating healthy had better results 2 years after the study. Wow, no kidding, really? I wonder why that is? Come on – give me a break. The researchers even go on to say “parents input might be necessary to see results”. Might be?
Of course kids that have parents who are actively exercising and eating healthy stand a better chance of learning and adopting better habits. No, I don’t believe that to always be the case, but I would argue common sense dictates this to be true most of the time. Wouldn’t you agree? How many behaviors and lifestyle habits do you think your children learn from you?
Children don’t only learn from being told what to do, but by being shown what to do. Popular quotes that comes to mind are “lead by example” and “actions speak louder than words”. Why would the kids from the first group, where the parents were taught better habits but didn’t adopt also adopt them or exercise, stay motivated? After all good old’ mom and dad don’t follow the program, so why should they. And the second group where the parents basically got the kids started and then ditched the program? Yeah, sure they’ll continue on their own.
In my opinion giving kids positive reinforcement is great, but teaching, showing and leading by example is as important if not better. And when the two are combined it’s just priceless. I see many kids that are overweight that also have overweight parents. Do you think that’s just a coincidence, or is it the poor eating habits and sedentary lifestyle that’s the real culprit? I don’t want to hear the excuses like “we’re big boned” or “our genetics makes us fat”. That’s a bunch of crap and everyone knows it. In the same way families that are big on sports and activity will tend to be generally healthier.
I’m lucky, really lucky. I grew up in an Italian household with tons of food everywhere. I ate junk food daily, bottles of soda, and calorie laden meals I wouldn’t even dream of eating now. Along the way in my 20’s, I learned about food and nutrition thanks to my bodybuilding interests, and it saved me. But I’m not the norm, most kids in my living situation would’ve continued on the path and ended up overweight, unhealthy and out of shape.
I’m sorry for the rant, but this is really getting to me and truthfully why I started Angry Trainer Fitness. I’m tired of reading about new pills, stomach pacemakers, drinks, and all sorts of junk trying to circumvent the real problem. It’s time we ALL buck up and take responsibility for our actions, which directly result and affect our most precious resource in life – our children.
If you’re overweight, a smoker, or have unhealthy habits you must realize that the harm being done is not just to yourself. The effects that you have on your children, how they think, their lifestyle, can have lifelong implications. I don’t think that I, or anyone else needed to read that in a news story to know it was true. So when are you going to start taking action and change…?
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about 2 years ago
Just because it makes sense doesn’t mean it’s scientifically approved that’s why they made the study although one would have thought that a similar one has been done before. Just sayin.
about 2 years ago
I know Berit. But to me it’s like funding a study to see if dropping rocks on a persons head hurts- you don’t need to actually do it to prove it true. I just think some things are common sense and that research money could’ve been used better elsewhere. Just sayin
about 2 years ago
you hit a point: when a whole family is fat, they justify it by being mother nature’s fault. and the’re really convinced about it! also, it’s not rare to see overweight mothers take their overweight child to a dietician, and start complaining about how much junk food his/her child consume. and what about her? oh, yeah, she eats like a little bird, it’s just slow metabolism… COME ON, seriously?
about 2 years ago
it’s probably good to find out that on a scientific bases the other 2 options are inferior to the option in which parents and kids get educated together.
I agree that it was the most likely option, but the most likely option does not always give you the best results. In my opinion that’s why it needed to be tested.
about 2 years ago
I think what irks you is that you assume government money has been wasted. Not all studies are funded by the government though, maybe it was a private company or even a thesis for all you know. And while the results may be logical to you, I don’t think they are in general. Take smoking..when I look at my friends they mostly smoke, yet almost none of their parents do/did. My dad smokes, I don’t.
about 2 years ago
This is study is simply another example of a long term interest on the part of the Humanities as well as the soft and hard sciences in gauging the influence of circumstances on actions, habits and organization, not just in human but in other animal societies as well. On a more specific note, where obesity is concerned, it’s an issue very much in vogue and the scientific community is one of many valid interlocutors, just like any one of us. We are here in this forum talking about it almost every day aren’t we? Researchers – and sometimes participants – have to get paid to “talk”. To those not involved in a healthy lifestyle, particularly parents, perhaps these results may in fact be shocking, in a wake-up-call way. What if the information from that study serves to persuade an unhealthy family out there? Not everyone hears the same thing from the same source or has the same notion of “common sense” that is common only in certain circles.
about 2 years ago
I agree, but I have to believe that in today’s society, no matter where you live, people know of the importance of exercise and eating healthy. The “I didn’t know excuse” may have worked 20, even 30 years ago. But today? I view it the same way as smoking- in the 40′s and 50′s they had no idea the harm that was caused. I don’t believe there’s a single person alive that isn’t aware of the risks from smoking.
With that said, I see everyone’s comments and the points that are made. And I thank you all for sharing your feelings.
about 2 years ago
I wish this study had been done ten years ago. My struggle with my weight starting in childhood, and my parents opted for door #1: do as I say, not as I do. I was under pressure to be physically active when neither of them were, which was ridiculous. If you pay for a gym membership for your kid, why wouldn’t you join the gym, too? Instead they would sign me up for personal training and SIT IN THE LOBBY for an hour. Same thing with eating: I was told to eat healthy while I watched my dad put away 2-3 helpings of everything and my mom exhibited classic EDNOS habits. I’ve resolved to get my health in shape now, so that when I have kids, I can model good habits for them instead of being a hypocrite like my folks.
My point is that studies like this are important because they can give parents a kick in the pants, a reminder that childhood obesity starts with parenthood obesity.
about 2 years ago
Sorry guys but as much as I wish it was so simple its not. There are many reasons for obesity and whereas poor parental nutrition/exercise habits play a role so does genetics. My mother took us biking, swimming, we would go on nature walks and our family camped. She did her best to keep her activities up and ours. She was always on diets, went to the doctor and was on thyroid medication etc. Eventually, her arthritis got the better of her knees and she was in a wheelchair. I struggle with my weight, and I haven’t given up but sometimes I get very frustrated. I focus my meals on whole foods, I journal and I use a recumbent bike and weights for exercise. For 2 years I was extremely strict, 1200 calories a day 5 days a week and 1400 on the weekends, a minimum of 2 hours working out, not including biking and walking with the dog. I felt good and in shape but did I get sleek? No. I am not as strict as I was but I don’t drink pop, I seldom eat out (well, I was traveling and ate at restaurants for a couple weeks, its was enough to make me gain weight even though I was mindful) I watch my fat, my beef, my refined carbs my sodium my calories and still I struggle. I keep at it cause its so easy to gain and so difficult to lose and I know I will be happier where I am now than another 20 lbs from now. I have been stuck for about 6 months while I was on a medication that usually makes people lose weight. I have not taken it for 2 weeks and I have lost 3lbs since stopping it. What I would like people to realize is that its really tempting to give in and give up when I am told I just don’t know how to diet or I am just lazy or I am not motivated. If a person like me gives up they balloon. So please motivated don’t denegrate!
about 2 years ago
Linda thank you so much for your candour and personal account. I admire your tenacity and it’s my intention to motivate everyone. I apologize if my stance offended you at all. That wasn’t my intention at all. Please don’t hesitate to ask if I can assist you in any way.